Wednesday, January 31, 2007

It's all about adjacements(Guru in Goa)

When we reached Goa.. it was supposed to be a fun trip but somehow our trips from office are not having fun only there is something else too. Something personal and sometimes emotional too. We come to know about each other. It was decided that everyone will say some stories to each other about their life. No prize for guessing that stories always ends up on only one topic.
Abhi was supposed to ber the one to start. It started in the bus itself. No but it was not him. He was the one who always ends in this trap. we spent the days there walking on the beach and nights on the beach was reserved for the talking. With just the sound of the waves it was more than perfect to hear to waht ppl says. Whatever we discussed are the confidential and is between the group only.
One night after long discussion on the girls and the side effects of the love. Mr. Abhi told a master stroke. The statement was more than perfect.
" It's all about the adjacmnet "
In the begining pepole adjust to get what they love and after they get it the cross adjacemnet starts. You slowly start making the point that you dont like this. There is a phase when both sides does the re- adjacements in their life, priorities and if the adjacements are fine, then there is no problem. Otherwise the stories takes a wrong turn(but this situation does not arise after the initial adjacements phase.
I thought this wonderful thought is worth mentioning with everyone. This earned Mr. Abhi the title of the Guru.

Comments:
I got a sms recently. It says "Fact of life - When you become close to someone, you come across their imperfections. And your future relationships depend upon how you handle these imperfections."
Adjustment and mutual understanding is the key for a good relation.
 
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